I did something I never imagined I’d do.
I took an RV trip with my family for 9 days.
One of my husband’s fondest memories was a 3-week RV trip with a friend’s family. This summer he was determined to make such a trip happen for our kids.
I was going to be a good sport and go along for the ride.
6 days later we were packed. Our Cruise America RV (awkwardly parked on our narrow tree lined street!) was loaded with games, food, 3 tubes of toothpaste, toilet paper, dog chews and miles of cords, headsets and devices.
As we pulled away from home I felt a friend’s wise words — don’t be in a hurry — settle into my bones like a slow exhale.
I felt it when my husband, known to hide a speeding ticket or two, pulled over with a new civility and moderation to let the faster cars pass. Most folks waved or gave a friendly honk. He was relaxed and I could sense that he was enjoying the change of pace.
At times I was aware of the habitual worry creeping in. What had I forgotten? Was there somewhere we needed to be? The creeping worry is indeed a fixture in my day-to-day life.
I felt it just knowing that we were together. For 9 days we biked, played board games, prepared food, cleaned, and continually shared the experience of our new surroundings.
We hiked through the magical giant redwoods, biked along the Northern Californian coast (trying not to crash as I was awed by the splendor of the Pacific Ocean) and waded in the Rogue River while salmon jumped just feet away.
Don’t get me wrong, my kids did the normal bickering – etc. but I’ll save that for another post!
I was sad when the trip came to an end. It was a sweet time of togetherness.
Now I’m home. Summer’s coming to an end with school starting tomorrow.
I’m wondering about that sense of ease during our trip. How do I re-capture the feeling of time slowing down, of being present with myself and, my children, husband and dog.
What allows YOU to be at ease and present in your everyday life? I want to know. Please share in the comment section below for the benefit of all our readers.
What allows you to be at ease and present in your everyday life? Generally and specifically.
What commitment are you going to make in order to bring more ease and presence into your life?